It was Never Between You and Them Anyway...

People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-centered,

Forgive them anyway.

if you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish motives,

Be kind anyway.

If you are successful,

You will win some false friends and true enemies,

Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and sincere,

People may deceive you.

Be honest and sincere anyway.

What you spend years building, 

Someone could destroy overnight,

Build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness,

They may be jealous,

Be happy anyway.

The good you do today,

People will often forget tomorrow,

Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough,

Give them your best anyway.

In the final analysis,

It is between you and Allah, 

It was never between you and them anyway.

DO IT FOR ALLAH.

AND OF COURSE, DO IT NOW!

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It's not easy to get that Aha moment. I think it's a blessing when through experiences in life, u discover a secret, or in fact, secrets to hold on, to let go, to find love or even to move on. I found out something today, while I was chilling out after school.

One little secret, that might not be One to others. But I just realized today, that moment in my life. That, to be happy,to find peace and tranquility really, I must not expect anything from others. I mean, if I love this person or yhat person, I must not put any expectations from those person. There was thid one song, Berhenti Berharap from SO7 way back when I was younger. I didn't get the lyrics back then. But now I think I do. Sure, we must not lose hope, but... we must put our hope towards Him. ALLAH the Almighty. And no one else.

Our Creator, He knows what we need. And what we want may not be what we need, really.

Yup, that's it. Don't put our hopes, even expectations on people. Turn to Him, during the bad times, and please, no turning from Him, during the good times. I watched the drama, Hanya PadaMu, and the hero mentioned this: A lot of people passed the test when they were tested with hardship. However, when they were tested with ease in life, such as happy family, wealth or even high ranks at work, many failed.

Ya Allah, grant me ease in life, but please do not let me go astray from the right path. May I remember you in good times and bad times. Blessed my parents and my family, my teachers, amd my friends. May we find husnul khatimah. Amin.

Wondering....

Assalamualaikum.

Dare I dedicate this song to someone that I really, really like?

I mean, what if I mentioned his name here, and shout out to the world that I really, really like him. Like as in, hey you, let's get to know each other better and if we suit, let's get hitched?

Arghhh... I asked my best friends, Fadzilah and Madiha, and: Fadzilah said, wow, if I do dedicate this song to him, I am really brave. And Madiha? She asked me to do Solat Istikharah.

I think, I am avoiding the second option because I am so scared of the answer would be. I mean, I did pray once before when I was looking for answers way back before school opened, and I dreamed of him! Imagine how shocked I was. Was it the answer I am looking for? I wasn't sure then, and I am still not sure now.

Anyway, for the moment, I am happily wondering! That's all I am willing to do, for now...

Dear someone whose name I won't mention, being around you, just calms me. When I feel so stressed to the max, just knowing you are there, makes everything feels better. But I am so afraid of asking you THE question, that I feel like I am in a limbo. Even if it doesn't work out between us, since I think the gap between us is so large, I am really glad to call you a friend. Don't stop being one. And I promise not to be clingy!

Wassalam.

Kawan Menangis

Assalamualaikum.

Entry ini, tajuknya ditulis sudah sekian lama. Kira saya, pada tahun 2012. Tahun dugaan yang begitu hebat bagi saya. Drama2 lewat sebelum itu, 2003, 2004 dan 2008, tidak sehebat 2012, pada hemat saya.

Kawan menangis? Sukar dicari dalam dunia ini. Sejuta, mungkin ada beberapa orang sahaja. Kawan ketawa memang ramai, tapi bila dunia kita kelihatan gelap, sukar untuk mencari kawan yang akan kekal disamping kita.

Saya rasa, saya amat bertuah. Mungkin kerana saya terlalu memilih kawan2 maka, walaupun saya tidak ramai kawan, yang berada di sekeliling saya adalah sangat baik. Sangat memahami. Dan saya sayang kamu semua. Tatkala dunia mengeji saya dan lebih gemar mendengar berita2 yang belum tentu benar, kalian memilih untuk bertanya apa sebenarnya berlaku. Dan memilih untuk memahami apabila saya tidak mahu berkata apa2 kerana terlalu lelah. Saya lelah untuk memberi penjelasan daripada A - Z. Saya mahu masuk ke dalam gua dan berlindung daripada ribut petir yang merupakan hidup saya pada waktu itu.

Kini. Siapa kata, walaupun kita telah melalui kepahitan demi kepahitan, kita akan kebal. Siapa kata, walaupun kita fikir kita sudah imun pada semua tohmahan. Saya lebih senang berdiam diri apabila orang lebih gemar mengeji. Biarkan mereka menghakimi diri saya. Yang penting saya tahu siapa diri saya. Ingat, orang yang melukakan hati orang lain akan bertemu hari yang penuh kelukaan suatu hari kelak.

Berdiam diri bukan bermakna saya mengalah. Kerana apabila yang kita ucapkan dan tuliskan itu akan melukai hati orang, lantas untuk apa diucap dan ditulis? Jika kita berfikir, apa yang kita ucapkan dan apa yang kita tulis itu akan melukai kita, lantas, usahlah diucapkan dan dititip kepada orang lain.

Saya tidak pasti apa yang menanti saya pada masa hadapan. Namun, semoga saya terus bertabah menghadapinya. Semoga kita semua mendapat kesudahan yang baik hendaknya, Amin.

Sesungguhnya, harga syurga itu adalah mahal. Apabila diuji, itu maknanya kita memang layak dan mampu menghadapinya. Allah Maha Pengasih dan Penyayang. Carilah kasih sayang dan redha Allah, nescaya kita akan bahagia dunia dan akhirat. Kerna, kawan2 menangis itu adalah kurniaan daripadaNya jua.

Terima kasih sahabat!


Wassalam.